Mastering the ART of CONVERSATION - Kaemzy Thompson

Conversation is the birthplace for miracles, anger, war, everything. 

Everything starts by conversation, whether a company, a relationship or an invention. They key to a woman’s heart is conversation, same with men. If you know how to communicate, any man/woman will give you access to anything you want. Relationships have been built and
destroyed thro words. Word-power is one of the greatest powers there is.

Conversation and Communication:

Conversation is the exchange of ideas using already-known symbols or language.  Effective communication is the birthplace for change. You can change the last half of your year thro the words you speak to yourself, your sphere of contact and to the world around you. You can change your future by changing the words you speak, how you speak them and to whom you speak them to. The bridge between today and tomorrow is communication. You can’t change your past, but you can change the future, by the words you speak, hear and choose to believe. Every demotion or promotion can be traced thro wrong communication.

Word-power:

Man is so powerful. What makes us more powerful is our ability to communicate – verbally and non-verbally. Words lift, words bring down. The state of a man is directly proportional to the kinds of words he hears and believes.  The level you’ll attain tomorrow is dependent on how well and effective your communication lines are with the future and the present. You are where you’re today because of conversation. If you want to change the quality of your life, change the quality of your conversation.

Relationships:

You’re one person away from the greatest transformation in your life. What you are looking is inside someone you’ve never communicated with. The real essence for community, states, and nations’ independence is to create an avenue where people who understand themselves can communicate with themselves about things affecting themselves. A break in relationship is cause by ineffective communication. Nobody knows what’s going on your mind until you say it. You’re not judged for what you did not say. The real cause of break-ups, divorce, menace, lack, sickness is ineffective communication.

Your words control your words:

When you don’t have, the bible says ask, seek and find. The three level of request is very vital especially when you’re communicating. Why people ask and don’t receive is because they don’t know how. I don’t believe we have a money problem, I believe we have a conversation problem… if you shall say to this mountain, be ye removed, it shall move.

Action:

The following five steps will help you master the art of conversation:

1.       Be confident

2.       Establish good eye contact

3.       Make compliments

4.       Become a great listener

5.       Ask questions